Asked by a reader in Bengaluru

Can my ex take our child abroad without my consent?

Answered by Advocate Sharan Jain··Family & Divorce Law

Short answer

Not where it would breach a custody or access order, and a minor's passport application ordinarily requires both parents' consent. If removal is genuinely threatened, move urgently for an injunction, passport impounding and a Look Out Circular.

This is one of the few family law situations where speed genuinely changes the outcome. Once a child has left the country, your options shrink dramatically and become far more expensive.

The protections that already exist

  • A minor's passport application normally requires the consent of both parents. A parent can also write to the Passport Office objecting, and any court order should be placed on that file.
  • Where a custody or visitation order exists, taking the child abroad in breach of it is contempt, and courts treat it very seriously.
  • Immigration authorities can be alerted through a Look Out Circular, which a court can direct where there is a real risk of removal.

What to do if removal is threatened

  1. Move an urgent application in the pending proceeding, or file a guardianship petition, seeking an injunction restraining removal of the child from the jurisdiction.
  2. Seek directions to deposit the child's passport with the court, and to restrain the issue of a fresh one.
  3. Seek a Look Out Circular where the risk is concrete.
  4. Write to the Regional Passport Office enclosing the order.
India is not a party to the Hague Convention
India has not acceded to the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction. That cuts both ways: there is no automatic return mechanism if a child is taken out of India, and equally no automatic return when a child is brought into India. Cross-border custody disputes are therefore fought as fresh proceedings, applying the welfare principle, and the Supreme Court has decided a number of them on comity and the child's best interests rather than any treaty obligation.

If the child has already been taken

Remedies include a habeas corpus petition in the High Court, proceedings under the Guardians and Wards Act, and simultaneous proceedings in the destination country. Act immediately: delay is treated as acquiescence, and the longer a child is settled abroad, the more weight that settlement carries.

Nothing there yet? Send the question in and it gets answered here.

Related legal service

Dealing with this yourself rather than reading about it? Our Bangalore advocates work in this area.

Go deeper on this

This answer is the short version. These guides cover the same ground in full, with the procedure, the timelines and the leading cases.

SJ

Answered by

Advocate Sharan Jain

Advocate based in Bangalore, practising before the Karnataka High Court and District, Sessions, Consumer and Family courts. Answers public legal questions to make Indian law more accessible.

This answer is general information on Indian law as at July 30, 2026, published for public education. It is not legal advice, it does not take account of your facts, and reading it does not create an advocate-client relationship. Law changes and every case turns on its own circumstances. Please consult a qualified advocate about your own matter.

People also asked

Family & Divorce

Can a father get custody of his child in India, or do courts always favour the mother?

Fathers can and do get custody. There is one governing test, the welfare and best interests of the child, and it is not a contest between parents. Courts lean toward the mother for very young children, but that is a presumption on the facts, not a rule of law.

Family & Divorce

My spouse will not let me see our child while the case is pending. What can I do?

Apply for an interim visitation order in the pending proceedings. Courts grant access readily because contact with both parents is treated as the child's right, and they can order supervised visits, video contact, or access at a court-monitored centre.

Family & Divorce

We live abroad. Can we still file for divorce in India?

Yes, if an Indian court has jurisdiction, which it usually does where the marriage was solemnised in India or either spouse last resided together there. Personal appearance is expected at key stages, though courts increasingly permit video appearance.

Family & Divorce

Is there a rule that a girl child always goes to the mother?

No. There is no rule of law that a daughter goes to the mother. The welfare of the child governs. Courts do often prefer the mother for a young girl approaching adolescence, but that is a judgment on the facts, not an entitlement.

Family & Divorce

How long does a mutual consent divorce actually take in India?

Usually six to eighteen months. It runs in two motions with a statutory cooling-off period of up to six months in between, and the Supreme Court has held that the six months can be waived where everything is genuinely settled.

Family & Divorce

My spouse refuses to agree to a divorce. Can I still get one?

Yes. Consent is only needed for a mutual consent divorce. Without it you file a contested petition on a statutory ground such as cruelty, desertion or adultery, and you must prove that ground with evidence.

S Jain & Attorneys · Ask Me

Still not the question you had in mind?

Search the column, or send your question in. Questions of general interest are answered here, anonymously, so the next person does not have to ask.